Increase Your Social Influence & Power Today

Everyone wants to have as much influence as they can muster, and this is something that a lot of people find particularly hard to come by. If you know that feeling well, and you are hoping to try and change that around so that you can enjoy more social power, then there are plenty of things you can do about it. In this post, we are going to discuss some of the most effective means of giving yourself more of this social influence, so that you can start to live a life which is going to be considerably more true to you. Remember at all times however that this is not having power over others that we are seeking, but merely the ability and strength to be you in a situation and be that as fully as you possibly can. Let’s take a look at how you might achieve that.


Develop Inner Confidence

First of all, you need to make sure that you are working hard to develop some inner confidence before you can hope to really make an impact on others socially. If you merely try to do that, without having the internal confidence to carry it through, then you will find that it doesn’t actually work. In fact, not only does it not work, but it will almost certainly result in the opposite of what you are going for, meaning that you are only going to end up frustrated and disappointed. But developing confidence is not easy, and a lot of people find that it takes a great deal of time to get right indeed. One of the best ways to do it for real is to simply do more and more things which are outside of your comfort zone. If you can do that, you will find that you are able to grow your confidence more and more as you prove to yourself what you are capable of. That is certainly worth looking into, and you will find that it leads automatically to more and more social confidence in the long run as well.

Display Yourself Proudly

The more that you are able to display your personality to others loudly, the more likely it is that you will be able to exert some influence over them. If you shy away and don’t let people see you who really are, then they will only really think of you as someone who is a little hidden. You can learn to show yourself more and more as times goes on in many ways, but often one of the easiest ways is to start small with something that is a little showy. That could be as simple as carrying out a number plate search and getting yourself a vanity plate for your car, or it could mean dressing in a manner which makes you feel comfortable, despite perhaps not being fashionable. The more proudly you display yourself, the more likely it is that people will trust you, so this is something that you should try and do as best as you can.

Smile

It sounds simple, but the truth is that the more you smile, the more people are going to trust you and like you. If you are smiling at them and it is genuine, you will find people respond to you very warmly indeed. This can be very useful when you are trying to be influential or powerful, and it is something that you will find can be addictive to do as well. As a means of getting used to it, you can try walking down the street smiling at people. You will be amazed how many people feel awkward and you might even feel that way yourself. But ultimately, you will get to the point where it is actually comfortable, and once you are there you will find that people tend to respond to you very well indeed. This is a great way of ensuring that people think you are friendly and warm, and it is something which is absolutely worth working on as best as you can.

Ask For Favours

Finally, it is worth knowing this little tidbit which can really help you to have more influence socially. The more that you ask for favours, the more you get, and you will find that once  you have asked someone for one thing, they are then more obliging to give you a further thing. This trick can be useful if you need something big from someone. Asking them for a little thing will make it much more likely they will then do the big one too. Remember this, and you will find you can get more of what you want, and that your influence will increase greatly.

-Jack

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